How to Help Your Kid Overcome Their Fear of Dentists

Posted on 6/2/2025 by NC Pediatric Dentisty

Visiting the dentist can be a nerve-wracking experience for many adults, but for children, it can be downright terrifying. The unfamiliar sights, sounds, and smells of a dental office, combined with the fear of pain or discomfort, can leave many kids feeling anxious and apprehensive. As a child dentist, I understand the importance of making dental visits a positive experience for young patients. So, how can you help your child overcome their fear of the dentist? Here are some tips:

Talk about the dentist in a positive light. Before your child's first appointment, talk to them about the dentist in a positive and reassuring way. Explain that the dentist is a doctor who helps people keep their teeth healthy and strong. You can even role-play a dental visit with your child, using a toy toothbrush and mirror to demonstrate the process.

Choose a child-friendly dentist. Not all dentists are created equal. Look for a dentist who specializes in treating children and who has a gentle and understanding demeanor. Ask your friends and family for recommendations, or check online reviews. Some dentists even have child-friendly waiting rooms with toys and games to help put kids at ease.

Prepare your child for what to expect. Before the appointment, explain to your child what will happen during the visit. Let them know that the dentist will examine their teeth, clean them, and may take X-rays. You can also show them pictures of dental instruments or watch videos online together. The more prepared your child feels, the less anxious they will be.

Bring a comfort item. Allow your child to bring a favorite toy, blanket, or stuffed animal to the appointment. Having a familiar object with them can help them feel more secure and relaxed.

Be patient and supportive. Don't rush your child or force them to do anything they're not comfortable with. Let them know that you're there for them and that you'll be with them every step of the way. Praise them for their bravery and reassure them that everything will be okay.

Distract your child. If your child is feeling anxious, try distracting them with music, a book, or a video on their tablet. You can also sing songs or tell stories to keep them entertained.

Reward your child. After the appointment, reward your child for their good behavior. This could be a small toy, a special treat, or simply some extra playtime. Positive reinforcement will help them associate dental visits with positive experiences.

It's important to remember that overcoming a fear of the dentist takes time and patience. Don't get discouraged if your child doesn't warm up to the dentist right away. With your support and encouragement, they will eventually learn to feel comfortable and confident in the dental chair.

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